A Life of Service…A recipe for disaster or fulfillment?
This past weekend, I attended the first Connecticut UU Social Justice Conference with a multigenerational group from our congregation. Most attendees were seniors, joined by activists of all ages, despite competition from many “No Kings” rallies.
On the way home, Grandmother Nancy, Pat, and I discussed whether people’s commitment to service has shifted. My first thought was that our dominant Western culture does not support a service-oriented life.
At 2:00 AM the next morning, I awoke pondering our conversation. I identified four principles that shape our dominant culture—and that many of us knowingly or unknowingly live by.
The first principle is independence. Successful people are expected to rely on themselves, with each nuclear family generating enough income and resources to meet its own needs.
The second is a mindset of scarcity. Because resources seem limited, we compete to secure enough money and other resources to keep ourselves and our families stable.
The third is to expect uncertainty and chaos. Constant change and unforeseen crises can overturn our lives. Balance feels impossible, so we accept an unbalanced life, take what we can, and keep moving.
The fourth is overextension. We rush from one demand to another, leaving little time to consider others. Service can seem like a risky distraction from survival.
Our dominant society rests on principles that discourage generous service, yet social justice requires people committed to serving others. What does that mean for our lives?
Nature offers another model: everything is interdependent and mutually supportive.
What are your thoughts on living a life of service? Is it possible? Is it preferred?
Jot me a note let me know what you think? Is anyone listening?
Rev. Jim Francek
Community Minister for Pastoral Care
